<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/' xmlns:georss='http://www.georss.org/georss' xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2515382259025718077</id><updated>2011-07-07T14:19:52.877-07:00</updated><category term='jemaah facebookiyah'/><category term='daftar hp murah'/><category term='cara meminta maaf'/><category term='Kumpulan foto alumni SMPNegeri 1 Kawunganten Part 1'/><category term='hp murah'/><category term='how to apologize'/><category term='PTC'/><category term='daftar hp musik murah'/><category term='cara minta maaf'/><title type='text'>iwan's blog</title><subtitle type='html'>blognya Ratiwan</subtitle><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ratiwansblog.blogspot.com/feeds/posts/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2515382259025718077/posts/default?max-results=100'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ratiwansblog.blogspot.com/'/><link rel='hub' href='http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/'/><author><name>iwan</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05348076315760999171</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_VUifXVIWSV4/Srooi8RGCHI/AAAAAAAAAC4/S-0WsMWRByI/S220/100_1016.JPG'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>6</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>100</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2515382259025718077.post-7720002594576387425</id><published>2009-09-23T03:49:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2009-09-28T21:45:37.169-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Kumpulan foto alumni SMPNegeri 1 Kawunganten Part 1'/><title type='text'>Kumpulan Foto Reuni (22 Sept 2009) Alumni SMP Negeri 1 Kawunganten Angkatan 2005</title><content type='html'>&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_VUifXVIWSV4/Srn4rn2Y3gI/AAAAAAAAACw/IhbIIRCQDnw/s1600-h/100_1000.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" height="240" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_VUifXVIWSV4/Srn4rn2Y3gI/AAAAAAAAACw/IhbIIRCQDnw/s320/100_1000.JPG" width="320" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;Ini adalah foto &lt;b&gt;&lt;i style="color: red;"&gt;bocah- bocah&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/b&gt; alumni SMPN 1 Kawunganten angkatan tahun 2005 yang hadir pada acara yang diadakan secara &lt;b&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="color: red;"&gt;sangat mendadak&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/b&gt;. tapi yg datang lumayan jg, sekitar &lt;b&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="color: red;"&gt;30 anak&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/b&gt; (tdk smua yg hadir ada di foto ini) akhirnya bisa datang. Bertempat di rumah Rusmiati, yg dijadwalkan pukul 10.00 WIB akhirnya baru bisa kumpul semua jam &lt;i style="color: red;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;13.00 WIB&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/i&gt;. Yaa, lain waktu akan saya upload semua foto secara bertahap, OK!!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i style="color: red;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;Standing / Ngadeg dari kiri ke kanan :&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/i&gt; Riza, Elih, Henti, Martina, Kholifah, Erni, wijang, Bahriah, (sing mburi klalen), Muklisin, Novi, Ratiwan (inyong), Basir, Heri, Imbar, Agus, (klalen). &lt;br /&gt;&lt;i style="color: red;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;Sing Pada ndodok nang ngarep :&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/i&gt; Fatimah and adine, Rusmiati, Wily, Beni, Bangkit, Reza, Andi, Lukito.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2515382259025718077-7720002594576387425?l=ratiwansblog.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ratiwansblog.blogspot.com/feeds/7720002594576387425/comments/default' title='Poskan Komentar'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2515382259025718077&amp;postID=7720002594576387425&amp;isPopup=true' title='1 Komentar'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2515382259025718077/posts/default/7720002594576387425'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2515382259025718077/posts/default/7720002594576387425'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ratiwansblog.blogspot.com/2009/09/kumpulan-foto-reuni-23-sept-2009-alumni.html' title='Kumpulan Foto Reuni (22 Sept 2009) Alumni SMP Negeri 1 Kawunganten Angkatan 2005'/><author><name>iwan</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05348076315760999171</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_VUifXVIWSV4/Srooi8RGCHI/AAAAAAAAAC4/S-0WsMWRByI/S220/100_1016.JPG'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_VUifXVIWSV4/Srn4rn2Y3gI/AAAAAAAAACw/IhbIIRCQDnw/s72-c/100_1000.JPG' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2515382259025718077.post-567275368833474659</id><published>2009-09-09T20:21:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2009-09-10T18:47:28.141-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='jemaah facebookiyah'/><title type='text'>Apakah Kamu Termasuk Jemaah Facebookiyah?</title><content type='html'>&lt;div class="judulheadline"&gt;&lt;div class="isiartikel"&gt;&lt;div style="float: left; margin-right: 10px; width: 300px;"&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 0px 0px 5px; width: 298px;"&gt;&lt;div id="loadarea" style="margin-bottom: 5px; width: 298px;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://www.kompas.com/data/photo/2009/04/05/1238587p.jpg" width="298" /&gt;             &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="boxpoto" style="color: #666666; font-family: arial; font-size-adjust: none; font-size: 9px; font-stretch: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0px; text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://tekno.kompas.com/read/xml/2009/09/09/11552511/#" style="color: #666666; font-family: arial; font-size-adjust: none; font-size: 9px; font-stretch: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: normal; text-decoration: none;"&gt;KOMPAS.COM&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="padding-left: 10px; padding-right: 10px;"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;/b&gt;Saking populernya Facebook, sampai-sampai muncul aliran baru di dunia maya yang menjadikan Facebook sebagai "ajarannya". Ada banyak kelompok "Jemaah Facebookiyah". Ada yang menamakan diri Jemaah Facebookiyah, Jemaah Fesbukiyah, Jemaah Al Facebookiyah, dan banyak nama lainnya.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div id="article_body"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Mereka membentuk kelompok tersendiri, untuk bergabung harus mendaftar dan melakukan diskusi terbatas di kelompoknya. Hanya yang menjadi anggota yang bisa terlibat dalam diskusi tersebut, mengirimkan pesan, gambar, atau &lt;i&gt;link &lt;/i&gt;ke situs-situs yang bakal ramai diperbincangkan.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Ini fakta lho, bukan gosip bukan rumor. Namun, jangan berpikiran buruk dulu dengan kelompok itu. Semuanya sebenarnya sama-sama kelompok yang tidak bisa lepas dari Facebook, bangga sebagai pengguna yang sehari-hari bisa mengakses Facebook, sampai-sampai bikin kaus, &lt;i&gt;t-shirt&lt;/i&gt;, &lt;i&gt;mug&lt;/i&gt;, dan pin dengan tema Facebook. Bahkan, di awal tahun lalu sempat terbit beberapa edisi &lt;i&gt;The Fesbuqiyah Telegraph&lt;/i&gt;, koran &lt;i&gt;online&lt;/i&gt; yang kocak habis dengan semboyan "enak di-tag dan perlu".&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Tanpa sadar, pengguna internet sudah tak bisa lepas dari Facebook yang telah menjadi bagian hidup. Jadi tanpa sadar, pengguna Facebook yang fanatik pun secara tak sadar telah menjadi bagian "Jemaah Facebookiyah". &lt;i&gt;Update&lt;/i&gt; status, ganti profil, komentar status teman, &lt;i&gt;nge&lt;/i&gt;-&lt;i&gt;tag&lt;/i&gt; foto, main &lt;i&gt;games&lt;/i&gt;, dan &lt;i&gt;share link&lt;/i&gt; sudah menjadi kegiatan rutin bukan lagi harian, bisa tiap menit bahkan detik. Facebook juga membantu jutaan orang menemukan sahabat-sahabat lama, saudara jauh, bahkan membangun persahabatan baru yang tak terbayang sebelumnya.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Bahkan, komunikasi dengan Facebook mau tidak mau harus bisa dilakukan di mana saja dan kapan saja. Lewat ponsel saat sedang naik bus kota&amp;nbsp;atau&amp;nbsp;KRL dan pakai PC &lt;i&gt;desktop&lt;/i&gt; di tempat kerja. Sementara saat di rumah, bermain Facebook mungkin akan lebih nyaman dengan sebuah &lt;i&gt;netbook&lt;/i&gt;. Selain ringan, juga mudah dibawa-bawa dari dapur, ruang tengah, tempat tidur, atau kalau perlu di WC.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Apalagi dengan &lt;i&gt;netbook&lt;/i&gt; yang &lt;i&gt;all in one&lt;/i&gt;, sudah lengkap dengan modem di dalamnya sehingga tak perlu colok-colok USB flash lagi. Salah satunya &lt;i&gt;netbook&lt;/i&gt; dari Smart yang sudah dibundel dengan layanan internet 3,5G menggunakan teknologi CDMA EVDO Rev A, apalagi layanan internetnya &lt;i&gt;unlimited&lt;/i&gt;. Dengan harga Rp 3.000 per hari, sudah bisa akses Facebook selama 24 jam tanpa takut mengeruk kocek lebih dalam.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Pilihan lainnya untuk bisa terus terhubung dengan Facebook tentu banyak. Namun, faktor kepraktisan dan tarif yang layak tentu jadi pertimbangan paling utama.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;dari kompas&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;googleee55d2e8444e91b2.html&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2515382259025718077-567275368833474659?l=ratiwansblog.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ratiwansblog.blogspot.com/feeds/567275368833474659/comments/default' title='Poskan Komentar'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2515382259025718077&amp;postID=567275368833474659&amp;isPopup=true' title='1 Komentar'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2515382259025718077/posts/default/567275368833474659'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2515382259025718077/posts/default/567275368833474659'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ratiwansblog.blogspot.com/2009/09/apakah-kamu-termasuk-jemaah.html' title='Apakah Kamu Termasuk Jemaah Facebookiyah?'/><author><name>iwan</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05348076315760999171</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_VUifXVIWSV4/Srooi8RGCHI/AAAAAAAAAC4/S-0WsMWRByI/S220/100_1016.JPG'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2515382259025718077.post-3311863416840049636</id><published>2009-09-08T21:35:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2009-09-08T21:35:49.551-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='daftar hp musik murah'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='hp murah'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='daftar hp murah'/><title type='text'>3 HP Musik Murah di Bawah 650 ribu</title><content type='html'>&lt;div class="breaknewsitem" style="margin-bottom: 10px;"&gt;          &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="boxisiberita"&gt;      &lt;div class="judulberita"&gt;Dengan Rp 650.000, Kamu Punya 3 Pilihan HP Musik&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="judulheadline"&gt;     &lt;div class="isiartikel"&gt;     &lt;div style="float: left; margin-right: 10px; width: 300px;"&gt;                      &lt;div style="padding: 0px 0px 5px; width: 298px;"&gt;              &lt;div id="loadarea" style="margin-bottom: 5px; width: 298px;"&gt;             &lt;img border="0" src="http://www.kompas.com/data/photo/2009/09/09/0934095p.jpg" width="298" /&gt;             &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="boxtitle" style="color: #333333; font-family: arial; font-size-adjust: none; font-size: 11px; font-stretch: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0px;"&gt;Ponsel pilihan dengan harga terjangkau&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="padding-left: 10px; padding-right: 10px;"&gt;                  &lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;Kamu ingin punya ponsel&amp;nbsp;musik, tetapi budgetnya hanya Rp 650.000? Tidak usah khawatir karena LG dan Motorola mendengar jeritanmu. LG KP110 mengenalkan dirinya sebagai&amp;nbsp;ponsel MP3. Ia menyediakan tombol musik melalui navigasi arah. Apabila Kamu sedang menjalankan fungsi musik, maka tombol navigasi itu akan berfungsi untuk &lt;em&gt;next&lt;/em&gt; atau &lt;em&gt;rewind&lt;/em&gt; lagu.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="article_body"&gt;Sebagai pembanding, ada juga Motorola W230 dan W231. Keduanya memiliki fungsi musik. Namun, yang membuatnya berbeda dengan LG KP110,&amp;nbsp;ponsel Motorola khususnya W231, sedikit lebih unggul dari 2&amp;nbsp;ponsel yang lain. Tipe ini dilengkapi lubang audio 3,5 mm.&lt;br /&gt;Lepas dari itu, ketiga&amp;nbsp;ponsel minus kamera ini memiliki fitur yang setara: didukung &lt;em&gt;web browser&lt;/em&gt; berformat XHTML untuk Facebook, &lt;em&gt;phonebook&lt;/em&gt; 500 nama, USB, MMS, radio FM, musik, layar 65.000 warna, layar 1,5 inci untuk LG KP110 dan 1,6 inci untuk Motorola W230-W231, GSM 900/1800 MHz, serta &lt;em&gt;organizer&lt;/em&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;Bagaimana dengan harga? LG KP110 dibanderol Rp 565.000, Motorola W2330 (Rp 650.000) dan W231 (Rp 550.000). Tenang saja, harga ini masih bisa ditawar kok. 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Often we try to apologize in an effort to appease the other person or make ourselves feel forgiven, but we can never hope to be forgiven for something we truly aren't sorry for.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;b&gt;Realize that what you did was not a good choice&lt;/b&gt; and probably hurt this person.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;b&gt;Realize that there are no excuses.&lt;/b&gt; Do not try to think of or offer one. An apology with an excuse is not an apology. Take full responsibility for what you did. And if the person you apologize to doesn't accept it, then they do not deserve it, but do not take it back and still say " i'm sorry.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;b&gt;Decide when to &lt;a href="http://www.wikihow.com/Apologize-to-Your-Older-Sister" title="Apologize to Your Older Sister"&gt;apologize&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/b&gt; Sometimes immediately after your mistake is best, sometimes not. The sting of a harsh word can be cooled right away with a quick apology, but other offenses might need the other person to cool down before they are willing to even listen to your next sentence. However, the sooner you apologize for your &lt;a href="http://www.wikihow.com/Handle-a-Mistake" title="Handle a Mistake"&gt;mistake&lt;/a&gt;, the more likely it will be viewed as an error in judgment and not a character flaw.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="thumb tright"&gt;&lt;div class="thumbinner" style="width: 182px;"&gt;&lt;a class="image" href="http://www.wikihow.com/Image:Apology_303.jpg" title="&amp;quot;I'm sorry...I shouldn't have said that.&amp;quot;"&gt;&lt;img alt="&amp;quot;I'm sorry...I shouldn't have said that.&amp;quot;" border="0" class="thumbimage" height="135" src="http://pad.wikihow.com/images/thumb/2/26/Apology_303.jpg/180px-Apology_303.jpg" width="180" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="thumbcaption"&gt;&lt;div class="magnify"&gt;&lt;a class="internal" href="http://www.wikihow.com/Image:Apology_303.jpg" title="Enlarge"&gt;&lt;img alt="" height="11" src="http://www.wikihow.com/skins/common/images/magnify-clip.png" width="15" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;"I'm sorry...I shouldn't have said that."&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.wikihow.com/Write" title="Write"&gt;Write&lt;/a&gt; your apology down.&lt;/b&gt; Construct a letter to the person you're apologizing to, rehearsing what you will say in person. If you don't feel comfortable with &lt;a href="http://www.wikihow.com/Ace-College-Writing" title="Ace College Writing"&gt;writing&lt;/a&gt;, then use a voice recorder. Not only will this help you remember what to say when you're face to face with them, but you can also bring the copy with you and hand it to them if you find the apology quite difficult to express. But never forget that a direct and honest apology is best. Do it face to face, if possible. A phoned, emailed or recorded apology may show a lack of sincerity and effort. &lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;b&gt;Begin the apology by naming the offense and the feelings&lt;/b&gt; it may have caused. Be specific about the incident so that they know exactly what you're apologizing for. Make it a point to avoid using the word "but". ("I am sorry, but..." means "I am not sorry.") Also, do &lt;b&gt;not&lt;/b&gt; say "I'm sorry you feel that way" or "I'm sorry if you were offended." Be sorry for what &lt;b&gt;you&lt;/b&gt; did! "I'm sorry you feel that way" makes it seem like you are blaming the other person, and is not a real apology. Validate their feelings or discomfort by acknowledging your transgression's (potential) effects, while taking responsiblity:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;"&lt;a href="http://www.wikihow.com/Be-a-Good-Boss" title="Be a Good Boss"&gt;Boss&lt;/a&gt;, I'm sorry I'm &lt;a href="http://www.wikihow.com/Pull-Off-Being-Late-to-a-Meeting" title="Pull Off Being Late to a Meeting"&gt;late&lt;/a&gt; again, I know my shift started 10 minutes ago. I hope this doesn't complicate your day."&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;"Dear, I'm sorry I forgot your &lt;a href="http://www.wikihow.com/Have-a-Birthday-Party" title="Have a Birthday Party"&gt;birthday&lt;/a&gt; - there's no excuse. I hope you don't feel neglected, please let me set this right."&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="thumb tright"&gt;&lt;div class="thumbinner" style="width: 182px;"&gt;&lt;a class="image" href="http://www.wikihow.com/Image:Apology_272.jpg" title="&amp;quot;This is an explanation, not an excuse. There is no excuse.&amp;quot;"&gt;&lt;img alt="&amp;quot;This is an explanation, not an excuse. There is no excuse.&amp;quot;" border="0" class="thumbimage" height="120" src="http://pad3.wikihow.com/images/thumb/3/39/Apology_272.jpg/180px-Apology_272.jpg" width="180" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="thumbcaption"&gt;&lt;div class="magnify"&gt;&lt;a class="internal" href="http://www.wikihow.com/Image:Apology_272.jpg" title="Enlarge"&gt;&lt;img alt="" height="11" src="http://www.wikihow.com/skins/common/images/magnify-clip.png" width="15" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;"This is an explanation, not an excuse. There is no excuse."&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;b&gt;Make amends.&lt;/b&gt; Think about what caused you to make the offense. Is it because you're a little too laid back about being on time, or remembering important dates? Is it because you tend to react instantly to certain comments, without pausing to consider an alternative point of view? Is it because you are unhappy with your life, and you unknowingly take it out on others? Find the underlying problem, describe it to the person (as an &lt;i&gt;explanation&lt;/i&gt;, not an &lt;i&gt;excuse&lt;/i&gt;), and tell them what you intend to do to rectify that problem so that you can avoid this mistake in the future:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;"I snapped at you because I've been so &lt;a href="http://www.wikihow.com/Relieve-Stress" title="Relieve Stress"&gt;stressed&lt;/a&gt; out with &lt;a href="http://www.wikihow.com/Dress-for-Work" title="Dress for Work"&gt;work&lt;/a&gt; lately, and it's selfish of me to take it out on you. Starting tomorrow, I'm going to cut down my hours to X per week. I really think it'll help me unwind, and help us spend more quality time together."&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;"I've been distant and cold because I get paranoid that you're going to walk out on me because I don't have a &lt;a href="http://www.wikihow.com/Get-a-Job" title="Get a Job"&gt;job&lt;/a&gt;. But that's a terrible thing to do. Look, here's a &lt;a href="http://www.wikihow.com/Memorize-a-List-in-Order" title="Memorize a List in Order"&gt;list&lt;/a&gt; of things I'm going to do to find a &lt;a href="http://www.wikihow.com/Apply-for-a-Job" title="Apply for a Job"&gt;job&lt;/a&gt; ASAP..."&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;b&gt;Express your appreciation&lt;/b&gt; for the role that they play in your life, emphasizing that you do not want to jeopardize or damage the &lt;a href="http://www.wikihow.com/Start-a-Relationship" title="Start a Relationship"&gt;relationship&lt;/a&gt;. This is the time to briefly recount what has created and sustained the bond over time and tell &lt;a href="http://www.wikihow.com/Bond-With-Friends-and-Loved-Ones" title="Bond With Friends and Loved Ones"&gt;loved ones&lt;/a&gt; that they are indeed loved. Describe what your life would be missing without their &lt;a href="http://www.wikihow.com/Regain-Trust-in-Someone" title="Regain Trust in Someone"&gt;trust&lt;/a&gt; and their company.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;b&gt;Ask if they will give you another chance&lt;/b&gt; to make up for what you did wrong. Tell them you'd love to show them that you've learned from your mistake, and that you will take action to change and grow as a result, if they will let you. Make a clear request for forgiveness and wait for their answer. This gives the injured party the well deserved "power" in determining the outcome of the situation.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;b&gt;Be understanding.&lt;/b&gt; If an apology is not accepted, thank them for hearing you out and leave the door open if they wish to reconcile later. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;"I understand you're still upset about it, but thanks for giving me the chance to apologize. If you ever change your mind, please give me a call.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;b&gt;Make no excuses.&lt;/b&gt; If you are lucky enough for your apology to be accepted, avoid the temptation to throw in a few excuses at the end. Instead, have a transition planned out beforehand for what you can do to solidify the clean slate. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;"Let's go get some coffee and catch up. It'll be my treat. I miss knowing what you're up to."&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;b&gt;Be patient.&lt;/b&gt; Remember, just because someone accepts your apology doesn't mean they've fully forgiven you. It can take time, maybe a long time, before the injured party can completely let go and fully trust you again. There is little you can do to speed this process up, but there are endless ways to bog it down. If the person is truly important to you, it's worth it to give them the time and space they need to heal.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;b&gt;Stick to your word.&lt;/b&gt; This is every bit as important as every other step. A true apology entails a resolution, and you have to carry out your promise in order for the apology to be sincere and complete. Otherwise, your apologies will lose their meaning, and trust may disappear beyond the point of no return.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ol&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2515382259025718077-5158449229755072460?l=ratiwansblog.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ratiwansblog.blogspot.com/feeds/5158449229755072460/comments/default' title='Poskan Komentar'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2515382259025718077&amp;postID=5158449229755072460&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Komentar'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2515382259025718077/posts/default/5158449229755072460'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2515382259025718077/posts/default/5158449229755072460'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ratiwansblog.blogspot.com/2009/09/how-to-apologize-cara-minta-maaf.html' title='How to apologize, cara minta maaf'/><author><name>iwan</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05348076315760999171</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_VUifXVIWSV4/Srooi8RGCHI/AAAAAAAAAC4/S-0WsMWRByI/S220/100_1016.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2515382259025718077.post-6661142321836314939</id><published>2009-09-05T07:06:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2009-09-05T07:19:26.702-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Cara Mengubah Layout Facebook</title><content type='html'>&lt;p style="text-align: justify;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;From Awang Jivi's Blog&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p style="text-align: justify;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Facebook&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;span&gt; merupakan &lt;span style="border-bottom: 1px solid rgb(0, 0, 204); text-decoration: underline; color: rgb(0, 0, 204); font-weight: 400; font-style: normal;font-family:arial;font-size:12;" class="IL_LINK_STYLE"  &gt;social network&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt; &lt;span style="border-bottom: 1px solid rgb(0, 0, 204); text-decoration: underline; color: rgb(0, 0, 204); font-weight: 400; font-style: normal;font-family:arial;font-size:12;" class="IL_LINK_STYLE"  &gt;yang&lt;/span&gt; sedang marak sekarang ini dan sedang di gandrungi oleh para masyarkat di &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="border-bottom: 1px solid rgb(0, 0, 204); text-decoration: underline; color: rgb(0, 0, 204); font-weight: 400; font-style: normal;font-family:arial;font-size:12;" class="IL_LINK_STYLE"  &gt;indonesia&lt;/span&gt;. Ngomong-ngomong soal facebook, ternyata&lt;/span&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span&gt; &lt;span class="IL_SPAN"&gt;&lt;input name="IL_MARKER" type="hidden"&gt;layout&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt; atau tampilan facebook &lt;span style="border-bottom: 1px solid rgb(0, 0, 204); text-decoration: underline; color: rgb(0, 0, 204); font-style: normal;font-family:arial;font-size:12;" class="IL_LINK_STYLE"  &gt;bisa&lt;/span&gt; di ganti&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;span&gt; layaknya &lt;span style="border-bottom: 1px solid rgb(0, 0, 204); text-decoration: underline; color: rgb(0, 0, 204); font-weight: 400; font-style: normal;font-family:arial;font-size:12;" class="IL_LINK_STYLE"  &gt;friendster&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="IL_SPAN"&gt;&lt;input name="IL_MARKER" type="hidden"&gt;yang&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt; &lt;span class="IL_SPAN"&gt;&lt;input name="IL_MARKER" type="hidden"&gt;bisa&lt;/span&gt; di rubah &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="IL_SPAN"&gt;&lt;input name="IL_MARKER" type="hidden"&gt;layout&lt;/span&gt; atau tampilannya. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span&gt;merubah tampilan atau &lt;span class="IL_SPAN"&gt;&lt;input name="IL_MARKER" type="hidden"&gt;layout&lt;/span&gt; facebook&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;span&gt; tidaklah sesulit mengganti theme &lt;span class="IL_SPAN"&gt;&lt;input name="IL_MARKER" type="hidden"&gt;friendster&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="IL_SPAN"&gt;&lt;input name="IL_MARKER" type="hidden"&gt;yang&lt;/span&gt; harus copy paste kode kode. Cara mengganti &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="IL_SPAN"&gt;&lt;input name="IL_MARKER" type="hidden"&gt;layout&lt;/span&gt; facebook hanya memerlukan beberapa langkah saja, inilah langkah langkah merubah &lt;span class="IL_SPAN"&gt;&lt;input name="IL_MARKER" type="hidden"&gt;layout&lt;/span&gt; facebook:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span id="more-794"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="text-align: justify;"&gt;&lt;span&gt;1. Login ke account facebook &lt;span style="border-bottom: 1px solid rgb(0, 0, 204); text-decoration: underline; color: rgb(0, 0, 204); font-weight: 400; font-style: normal;font-family:arial;font-size:12;" class="IL_LINK_STYLE"  &gt;anda&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="text-align: justify;"&gt;2. Kunjungi situs ini: &lt;a rel="nofollow" href="http://apps.facebook.com/pagerage/" target="_blank"&gt;http://apps.facebook.com/pagerage/&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="text-align: justify;"&gt;3. kemudian akan ada permintaan izin untuk masuk ke aplikasi tersebut, pilihlah “allow”&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="text-align: justify;"&gt;&lt;span&gt;4. kemudian pilihlah &lt;span style="border-bottom: 1px solid rgb(0, 0, 204); text-decoration: underline; color: rgb(0, 0, 204); font-weight: 400; font-style: normal;font-family:arial;font-size:12;" class="IL_LINK_STYLE"  &gt;layout&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt; &lt;span class="IL_SPAN"&gt;&lt;input name="IL_MARKER" type="hidden"&gt;yang&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt; &lt;span class="IL_SPAN"&gt;&lt;input name="IL_MARKER" type="hidden"&gt;anda&lt;/span&gt; sukai, ada banyak sekali &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="IL_SPAN"&gt;&lt;input name="IL_MARKER" type="hidden"&gt;layout&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt; &lt;span class="IL_SPAN"&gt;&lt;input name="IL_MARKER" type="hidden"&gt;yang&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt; ada di sana. &lt;span class="IL_SPAN"&gt;&lt;input name="IL_MARKER" type="hidden"&gt;anda&lt;/span&gt; dapat memilih berdasarkan kategori juga, setelah &lt;span class="IL_SPAN"&gt;&lt;input name="IL_MARKER" type="hidden"&gt;anda&lt;/span&gt; menjatuhkan pilihan ke salah satu &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="IL_SPAN"&gt;&lt;input name="IL_MARKER" type="hidden"&gt;layout&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt; maka &lt;span class="IL_SPAN"&gt;&lt;input name="IL_MARKER" type="hidden"&gt;anda&lt;/span&gt; pilih select.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="text-align: justify;"&gt;&lt;span&gt;5. setelah memilih &lt;span class="IL_SPAN"&gt;&lt;input name="IL_MARKER" type="hidden"&gt;anda&lt;/span&gt; akan di minta untuk &lt;/span&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Install Yantoo Layers&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;span&gt; jika &lt;span class="IL_SPAN"&gt;&lt;input name="IL_MARKER" type="hidden"&gt;anda&lt;/span&gt; belum install. setelah terinstall maka &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="IL_SPAN"&gt;&lt;input name="IL_MARKER" type="hidden"&gt;layout&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt; &lt;span class="IL_SPAN"&gt;&lt;input name="IL_MARKER" type="hidden"&gt;anda&lt;/span&gt; akan terpasang.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="text-align: justify;"&gt;&lt;span&gt;mudah bukan mengganti &lt;span class="IL_SPAN"&gt;&lt;input name="IL_MARKER" type="hidden"&gt;layout&lt;/span&gt; facebook? tinggal lakukan langkah langkah sederhana di atas. selamat mencoba.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="text-align: justify;"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;span&gt;jika cara di atas tidak &lt;span class="IL_SPAN"&gt;&lt;input name="IL_MARKER" type="hidden"&gt;bisa&lt;/span&gt;, saya dapatkan alternatif untuk merubah facebook &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="IL_SPAN"&gt;&lt;input name="IL_MARKER" type="hidden"&gt;layout&lt;/span&gt;, tambahan ini saya dapat dari blognya mas abi yaitu situs penyedia &lt;span class="IL_SPAN"&gt;&lt;input name="IL_MARKER" type="hidden"&gt;layout&lt;/span&gt; facebook:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="text-align: justify;"&gt;http://facebooking101.com/modules/profileimages/&lt;br /&gt;http://www.layouts.fm/preview/216169/FACEBOOK%20LAYOUTS.html&lt;br /&gt;http://www.fbexpressions.com/&lt;br /&gt;http://www.nirmaltv.com/2008/06/13/customize-your-facebook-profile-with-beautiful-layouts/&lt;br /&gt;http://www.pagerage.com/&lt;br /&gt;http://socialnetworking.lovetoknow.com/Free_Facebook_Layouts&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2515382259025718077-6661142321836314939?l=ratiwansblog.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ratiwansblog.blogspot.com/feeds/6661142321836314939/comments/default' title='Poskan Komentar'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2515382259025718077&amp;postID=6661142321836314939&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Komentar'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2515382259025718077/posts/default/6661142321836314939'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2515382259025718077/posts/default/6661142321836314939'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ratiwansblog.blogspot.com/2009/09/cara-mengubah-layout-facebook.html' title='Cara Mengubah Layout Facebook'/><author><name>iwan</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05348076315760999171</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_VUifXVIWSV4/Srooi8RGCHI/AAAAAAAAAC4/S-0WsMWRByI/S220/100_1016.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2515382259025718077.post-4185549060512276991</id><published>2009-09-04T18:15:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2009-09-04T21:29:04.345-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='PTC'/><title type='text'>Daftar Paid To Clik / PTC Yang Saya Ikuti</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Berikut ini daftar PTC yang saya ikuti :&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;kalau mau ikutan &lt;span style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(255, 0, 0);"&gt;klik aja &lt;/span&gt;:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://indonesiaptc.com/?r=ratiwan"&gt;&lt;img src="http://indonesiaptc.com/images/banner1.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://pocketfavorite.com/pages/index.php?refid=ratiwan"&gt;&lt;img src="http://pocketfavorite.com/images/banner.gif" alt="Pocketavorite.com" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://silver.paidtoviewtube.com/?refer=ratiwan" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;img src="http://img200.imageshack.us/img200/6900/animationj.gif" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.nominimumbux.com/?ref=ratiwan"&gt;&lt;img src="http://www.nominimumbux.com/images/banner1.png" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.hybux.com/?r=ratiwan"&gt;&lt;img src="http://www.hybux.com/banners/?b=1" width="468" border="0" height="60" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.wordlinx.com/index.php?r=192527"&gt;&lt;img src="http://www.wordlinx.com/banners/468x60_1.gif" alt="WordLinx - Get Paid To Click" width="468" border="0" height="60" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.clixsense.com/?2916324"&gt;clixse&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.clixsense.com/?2916324"&gt;nse&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;indonesia PTC&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2515382259025718077-4185549060512276991?l=ratiwansblog.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ratiwansblog.blogspot.com/feeds/4185549060512276991/comments/default' title='Poskan Komentar'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2515382259025718077&amp;postID=4185549060512276991&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Komentar'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2515382259025718077/posts/default/4185549060512276991'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2515382259025718077/posts/default/4185549060512276991'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ratiwansblog.blogspot.com/2009/09/daftar-paid-to-clik-ptc-yang-saya-ikuti.html' title='Daftar Paid To Clik / PTC Yang Saya Ikuti'/><author><name>iwan</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05348076315760999171</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_VUifXVIWSV4/Srooi8RGCHI/AAAAAAAAAC4/S-0WsMWRByI/S220/100_1016.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry></feed>
